Written by Attract More on Oct. 20th 2022

You've Been Lied to Your Whole Life

You, being the functioning member of society that you are, desire to be woke. You don’t want to be one of those toxic masculine types. You read countless Twitter posts and watch open discussion videos to help you keep up with the progressive times. Congratulations, you haven’t been hammered by the Human Resources group in your office space because you are so enlightened. Now you being the sensible man that you are, you go out on a few dates. You meet a cute, artsy girl, self-proclaiming to be a humanist, with plenty of tattoos, piercings, and an edgy mullet hairstyle that surprisingly makes her look like a rockstar. You and her both vibe over the idea that the patriarchy is a social construct that has oppressed human potential for thousands of years and must be eradicated. You feel appreciated. You feel understood. And most importantly, you feel seen that you are one who truly understands. 

Yet, something keeps going wrong. Your relations with the opposite sex leaves you confused every time. They call you and vent about their relationship troubles. You being the good listener you are, welcome them to express their feelings.

“He is such a jerk and he keeps playing me, teasing me along. I know he is talking to other women, and I just want to feel respected,” she says. Angrily you reply; “yes, you need to find a guy who treats you with respect. You deserve the best,” you express with your social justice vigilance. 

You meet other women, who you are interested in and would love to date. Yet they are not ready to get in a relationship with you because they are stuck on their ex, one who they claim to be disrespectful, dishonest, toying with their heart till this day. You think to yourself, “I would respect you. I would be honest and put you above everything in the world out there. I would make you my priority.” Yet, they constantly either friend zone you, or distance themselves away from you after a few dates. 

Then a revelation strikes you (suddenly through the enlightenment of an Attract More Post). You realize that these girls never discuss being in relationships with the nice guy who prioritized them above everything else. And they never give you a chance to be the one who they complain to their friends about. Suddenly, you realize that the traits you have adopted from society have caused society to abandon you. What if I told you that the things that you have been taught are causing the opposite sex to despise you, or even worse, not even realize that you exist.

Do You Want to See The Truth

Fortunately for you, Attract More will show you five things you are doing unaware that make you non-attractive. Blame those Jubilee videos, feminism, the patriarchy, republicans, democrats, your school teacher berating you, or your parents. But at some point you adopted traits that you were led to believe will make society cherish you, but in fact, it did the opposite. 
Within 8 minutes, we will expose 5 of those traits together, and help you become the man that the women of our society respect, remember, and discuss for years to come.

5. Unattractive Things You Are Doing And You Don’t Even Know It

Is it inconsiderate to make decisions for everyone else? Women nowadays can make their own decisions, so shouldn’t you overstep anyone's opinions, especially in a democracy? Wrong, you should be an elitist in your endeavors. Hear me out. This does not mean that you should not listen to others’ opinions, nor let people chime in when making decisions. However, some of you have been taught to be so soft that you are unwilling to make a firm decision and do so quickly, even more so on the behalf of other people, because you feel that it is egregious. The truth is, many times it is. Jeff Bezos has been tyrannically decisive, and because of his elite decision-making, he has built one of the most mammoth corporations on the globe. Elon Musk trusts his decisions more than anyone else, and with his track record, he definitely should. Case in point, you must improve your critical thinking and make firm decisions, especially for your relationships and dates. Lead the interaction to the place where you believe it is best for you and those who accompany you to go. 

Cease being too sensitive. Cease being fearful of choosing the activity for the night, the restaurant, the next vacation, the food she is ordering, etc. Women love for a man to be their portal to the world, especially when it is done in a surprising, mysterious, and at the end of it all safe method. You call the girl and decide that you want to take her out and get to know her, decide that you are picking her up, decide to be a gentleman by opening the door and courting her, decide on the meal that you know will astonish her taste buds, decide to follow it up with a sunset viewing, decide to go to a concert this weekend for a date. 

This decisive energy is much more attractive than the “I don’t know, what are you feeling for dinner” or "Let's just go with the flow" indecisive aura that you have been radiating.


4. Not Saying What You Believe

Never talk about abortion. Never talk about religion. Never talk about politics. This is the advice you hear all the time. Yet, these are all important topics that have such an underlying consequence on the well-being of our society. Yes, all these conversations cause tension and potential infighting. However, what is worse is if you do not discuss the hard topics because you are scared of how people will respond to you once you reveal your stance on an issue. 

This societal fear has caused is millions of people to become stripped of their voice who either don’t believe in much or if they do, they are so docile that they won't express it. If you can't speak on a topic, how can you fight for it? Every single person in history that we are drawn to for inspiration has believed in something, fought for it, and even died for it. Martin Luther King, Gandhi, Trump, Obama, Abraham Lincoln, JFK, and Hitler all had varying beliefs, but are remembered because of their fanaticism thereof. However, I give you my personal guarantee that you will not impact history if you believe in nothing.

3. Not Correcting People

Women want to be told what to do. Yes, read it again. That may go against everything you have heard in the last decade. Certain masculine attributes have an implication that in order to exhibit them, you must give orders. Dominance, leadership, direction, clarity, and boundaries; are all qualities that your utmost attractive self must have. 

You are too scared to tell your women what to wear, how to dress, when to be ready for you, and what direction you both are going as an entity. Contrary to popular dogma, women appreciate this behavior when done so with respect in the scenario of courting.  


Let’s discuss the juicy stuff. In the case that you have someone disrespecting you; The moment that you do not correct them becomes the moment that they realize that you are someone who allows disrespect. 

You can only be disrespected if you allow it. Repeat that to yourself.

By nature, women can not be fully attracted to someone who is not respected. Remember, people may not like you if you correct them, set boundaries, and cause tension. But they will be drawn to you, or at least respond to your presence. Women do not have to like you to be attracted to you, but they must have respect for you.

2. Not Being Aggressive

Life is a big competition. In nature, the strongest survives, and the weakest dies. If you live in a “western” society, be grateful that you are blessed with a civilization that gives you a comforting illusion over reality. Reality is war, imposed control, death, and an "every man for himself" mentality. 

The genocides, wars, and natural disasters you see on the news is reality. You having the comfort to sit at home and binge-watch Stranger Things isn’t. 

If you own a business, every dollar that someone spends at one business is one they could have spent at yours. If you have a channel, every minute someone watches another entertainer is one they could have spent watching you. When a woman chooses a man, she is choosing the strongest, most viable option available to her, and yet you are competing with someone like me...May there be mercy upon you. 

Don’t think that being 'respectfully aggressive' is pushy. You must aim to win in everything you do in life. Otherwise you will be the one who complains about the managers, presidents, and “douche bags” who do win in life as being too mean. 

Do whatever is necessary morally, ethically, and legally to win at any task. The wife of any UFC fighter wants to go home with the champion instead of comforting the loser.


1. Saying things to be agreeable

Can’t we all get along with each other? Yes, but that does not mean being politically correct. Confrontation and tension are good things, especially if you are the one who uses them in your favor. 

Weak men want everyone to be agreeable so that it doesn’t startle their day. They fear the tension. Women can and will sniff this out. They know when you are saying things not to disturb them. This is highly unattractive as this shows that you are too scared to be yourself, state what you believe, and speak your truth because you are fearful of the opinion of others. Even worse, you maliciously (whether you realize it or not) want something from the woman and you are scared that if you irritate her, you won’t get it. A woman can disagree with most of what you say. However, she will admire you as a man that is grounded in your beliefs and your words. If you can show her why your world is superior to hers, she will follow your lead into your opinions.

 

Say, for example, you start an argument with a woman. You say arrogantly with assurance, "woman love being told what to do by a strong, powerful man." She immediately, without listening to your reasoning, defies your statement. Specifically, she does so because she was taught to hate the idea of being ordered by a man rather than having real-world negative experiences with it.

 Yet, you read Attract More, and you know to stand your ground and do things your way ;) You call her later that night, tell her to dress up fancy, with the color dress you’d know she would look decadent wearing, douse her body with her favorite perfume, and rock the heels you want to see her walk with feminine confidence in. You direct her to be ready at 5:00 pm… SHARP... and do not forget to bring a pair of activewear clothing as well,or else… 

She is weary of your approach, but she does not reject your proposition. 

You pick her up at 4:59 pm. She is wearing everything you told her. You dine at a restaurant with your favorite Crème Brûlée in the city. She states she is on a diet, you affirm to her that it is her night to treat herself, and you order the best items for her, entrancingly revealing pieces of your world through taste and stimulating conversation. 



You abruptly end the date early but proceed to surprise her with a sunset boat ride at the beach, where she relaxes in her athletic clothes which now serve their purpose. You, in one night, have stood in your stance on a position, and shown her the experience of trusting a man who speaks with assurance and the comfort that comes with it. Do you think she will want to go back to hearing “so what do you want to do for dinner tonight?
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 You have shown her dominance, leadership, direction, clarity, and boundaries within one experience. It is by her nature to have these things to feel secure.

Eliminate All Unattractive Traits in 8 Weeks Rather than 8 Years 

If you continue exhibiting any of the negative five unattractive qualities listed here, you will be withholding yourself from becoming the utmost attractive man you can be. Sensibly doing the opposite of everything listed here will help you exhibit the qualities that may not make you agreeable, and may make some people annoyed by your opinions, but will transform you to being the highest form of your attractive self because people respect you.

 

If you see that you have had these blindspots in your life, and they haven’t been serving you to be your truest self, then sign up to schedule a meeting with me to discuss if enrolling in our next 8-week class will be right for you.


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